I regularly see the media talking about people waiting for hours to get a "selfie" with Elizabeth Warren, and people on social media posting pictures of their "selfies" with her. I love that she's willing t stay that long to interact with everyone, and admire their patience, as well. But -- to be clear -- almost NONE of these are "selfies." A "selfie" is very specifically when you yourself take a photo with yourself in it. When someone else takes a photo of you (most-especially when posing with another person), it's simply...a "photograph."
And referring to me as a member of the Grammar Police doesn't change that.
(I'm actually fine when people knowingly play around with language, or even screw up with words by mistake, as I and everyone does. But not only is accuracy generally considered a positive thing, but there are some words that have a cultural meaning -- in this case, making oneself the active participant in the action, thanks largely to a change in technology ("I took this photo of me!") -- and I think it's good not to lose such valuable things. And that's pointed as much at the media calling them "selfies" as anyone. By the way, to be fair, as well, I'm sure this likely began when early on people actually did take real selfies with Sen. Warren. And after it adapted to a more formalized practice, the word stuck, when it shouldn't have. Because...well, it's taking credit for what someone else did.)